Is everything perfect in Canada, or do we make it perfect?

life here in Canada is not going to be easy.

is that life in Canada is going to be very

difficult is that there will be days when

you are going to say I Why did I come

what am I doing here this was a bad idea

go to you to fight with your partner

This was your idea not mine that

we do in Canada as that dream

Canada's perfect start as to how to

to fall down to break into pieces For

because one realizes that this

perfection that one created in one's head

at the beginning there is no I compare

immigration as when one has a

new boyfriend know when I remember

before I have a new boyfriend for me

tod da perfect, i.e. one knows

someone new and it's the perfect match

nothing bothers you everything is beautiful and you

then begins to get to know the person and

to achieve those small defects that

one does not like them to the point that one either

home or end up coming to Canada

that's what it's like to meet a new boyfriend

is to know the first months of a

new country where everything works

in which there is nothing that is

evil in which it is not the marvel of the

world and within months it is one to start as a

to discover those little things like mm no

I like this Ah that I don't like this Ah that I don't like that I don't like that I don't like that

and it happens to all of us it is normal and the

advice I want us to have today in

is for us to accept that traveling to

Canada is to meet a country that is not

perfect as well as when one gets the

love life I love Nicolas with all my

but Nicolas is not perfect

I'm not perfect either and he loves me

Well I think he loves me Not if he loves me but

I am not perfect he is not perfect

but we are both working to remain

the person you want to be with and

that one gets the best out of the other

and Canada is the same because the country

the one you live in is the same as the one you leave

to a country that is not perfect but that

has many virtues that make one

is still there because you know there's something

of that which keeps you there, I am

I have realized that the reasons for

that people are leaving Canada one of

among so many is that they reach

Canada with a

as if with an overly high expectation

that the country is doing very well

then as one obviously and I'm not going to

lying here is not that Canada is a bad thing.

country Canada is a wonderful country

Canada has so many virtues besides

cold weather and heavy snow in

winter Canada is a safe country in the

that I have two children and even though I have

sometimes I get tired of the country because there are things

that I don't like the fact that I know that I know

that my babies are so secure in

Canada is what you have in this country in

this moment in my life because the

Canada's security does not compare with

nothing and that fills one's heart

because in one's country of origin, one

lives in fear So when one sees

that security is also working well

one automatically thinks that everything that

that is life in a country works just as well as

well as in the safety AND

unfortunately this is not the case so let's go

to accept that when you travel to Canada

one is going to change problems in one's country of

origin for other problems then here

in Canada you do not have to have

no fear that the virus window

is downstairs and they're going to steal your phone or

forget about that problem but they are going to

see other problems As which good

hundreds of problems, such as the

medical system does not work the way it should

in which you want others to operate

things are that, for example, people like to

and is annoyed by the fact that they charge so many

taxes good in Canada taxes

are quite high and there is no way to

avoid them, there are people who are bothered by it

in Canada one gets on the street

many beggars in our countries

also except that here, for example, smoking

eh marijuana Is legal Then I go in the

and it smells a lot like it and I don't like it.

like to bother me I'm leaving there are many things

that in Canada are different than in

our countries and people bother to

that Then we change problems in

our countries because of new problems in

Canada when one accepts that this country

is not perfect but comes with many

defects as one arrives in Canada

Knowing that Okay my life is not going to be

magazine or Disney fairy tale is a

realistic life in which the things to

sometimes they work and sometimes they don't.

work but I have one in mind

last goal that is going to be the residence

permanent or the

citizenship by

example me and I'm going to be very sincere here

I like living here in Canada very much.

and it's something for me that fills me up

me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me is the fact that by

example, one has such a support network

big eye there are a lot of friends but the

friends You are in the same situation as

one then it's not like one can

download friends I used to be

single I did not see Canada with husband

I got Nicolás we did group no longer

I'm alone I'm with him after I'm alone I'm with him after I'm alone I'm with him after

pregnant I had my first baby and then

I had the second baby and here life is

transforms to a point where one does not know

Then imagine for example to me the

the fact that Canada does not have a network of

support that can help me with my children

edy that you want your mom to raise you

to the child is that one does not have children to

let others raise them, not me, I have my own children.

to raise them myself but every human being

need a break need a break

one needs life one with one's partner needs

from time to time go to see a movie

to the movies to have a date to go out for a drink

coffee when one is in Canada alone and does not

has no one to support him, this becomes more complicated.

because this entity cannot do that.

kind of things one does in one's country of origin.

The origin of the problem becomes more complicated.

being alone and being tired

and to know that if I get sick it's my turn

ask Ela to work off to take care of

mi a mi a mi mi me toca quedar en la casa

I'm sorry without help or my son will

sick, I have to stay in the house a a

my son because I don't have enough money to care for him.

who leave it is my turn to ask for a job

off and that day is not paid, i.e. it is not

like I go to my mom's house and I go to my mom's

I say mom help me with my son today or

neighbor can help me with our

countries is the cousin, the friend who

help one in Canada get that is

difficult and that thing of not having that network

of support to one Honestly begins to

to say but I already see what I do here.

I am alone So what do I want to tell you

to you today when one accepts that the

country is not perfect when one accepts

that their story is not going to be easy when

do not accept that as edy you are going to be

tired look I have not slept well 2

and a half years old is my oldest son's age

and I don't sleep well because I have

I don't have to take care of him every night

to help me pay for a babysitter

is very expensive, but that's because it is

is part of this life experience

that's part of what you're

And that migration is going to come with

many obstacles will come with many

sacrifices but if it does not have marked sub

clear objective and one knows that even though

this life I am leading right now does not

is perfect I am looking for a goal

much larger than it is, and that goal is

much larger than it is is

the goal of achieving residency in the

citizenship So what is my advice

here is to accept that life here in

Canada is not going to be easy is that life is

in Canada is going to be very difficult is that

there will be days when you are going to

say I Why did I come I what do I do

this was a bad idea here they are going to

you to fight with your partner This was

your idea was not my idea that we do in

Canada but always remember that you

is in Canada as a family plan

are both in this process is a plan

team that when things are put together

ugly today along they will be beautiful

will not be so much the

end of the world and also remember

always that the situation in which

you are today is not going to be the situation

who is going to end his life in the

future, i.e. if things today are

gray in 6 months or in one year can be

So let's accept that we do not

idic Canada as the most beautiful country in the

world in which all is well

because, believe me, as we get more and more

Canada are getting to know each other, they are going to

that it was not so perfect because of the

example I more examples from my life of

mom yoan Canada single for me Canada

is the most impressive thing in the world for

what Because for me what it was to be single

was to work together to pay for my

apartment that my rent was a

little of what I used to earn, i.e. me

I was earning 3,000 a month and my income was

500 imagine I had to save

2,500 had no responsibilities

and then I met my husband

and before it was the rumba now I have a husband

but it was perfect because we still went out

to date and there were always things to do

everything was perfect I never complained De

nothing but after I got pregnant I entered

to the medical system, I realized that I did not

so good the medical system then my

son became ill, I realized that the

part of the medicine for children was bad

I don't have support from my mom, I don't have

This is how we like it.

that like that perfect dream of

Canada starts as a as a as a as a

fall off and break into pieces Well, then

because one realizes that this

perfection that one created in one's head

at the beginning does not exist and one begins

with this constant struggle of what to keep

I'm leaving I'm staying I'm leaving I'm staying I'm leaving

I've been in Canada for 10 years and I still have

I ask is that it says the

I'm doing I'm moving to

Colombia I am staying here for Venezuela

but I'm still here because in my mind I

Of course, Canada is more than that.

a much bigger thing which is the

my children's future, citizenship and all

this story so please be patient and accept

that it is not perfect do not idealize

Canada we will exchange problems for

others, but those problems in Canada are not

compared to the insecurity in

our countries and with which our

countries life cannot be taken away just like that

because the car with the vibro down and

so let's remember the following

that brought us to Canada, let us be strong and

let's continue here because it is worth doing it

be well bye bye bye

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